His Holiness, the Dalai Lama: An Open Letter

Written by Harold McNeill on May 10th, 2012. Posted in Editorials


This photo provides a stark reminder of the challenges faced by Tibetans and how a few young Monks have sought to bring attention to the plight of their people.  The letter that follows encourages His Holiness the Dalai Lamas to return to Tibet to stand with his people as others have done when their people were being oppressed and brutalized.

“Tibetan culture, religion and identity face “extinction” and (the) residents of Tibet (are) living in ‘hell on earth’.”  A quote by the Dalai Lama made at the Dharmsala Conference, India, on March 11, 2009. (Reported by Emily Wax, Washington Post)

His Holiness, The Dalai Lama
May 11, 2012

Dear Holiness,

Re: Has the time come to go home and stand shoulder to shoulder with your people?

During your recent visit to Canada, I noted Prime Minister Harper warmly greeted you (photo left), but did so in a rather low key fashion. I suspect that was because he did not want to offend the Chinese Government as China has become an extremely important trading partner for all manner of Canadian resources, goods, and services. Your reception by other world leaders seems to follow the same general trend – respectful, but low key and not likely to influence China one way or the other regarding their harsh treatment of the people in Tibet.

I also note your status as a media darling has grown substantially in recent years and while you grant many interviews, those interviews must be closely scripted as I cannot remember hearing one hard question ever being asked of your Holiness. In a recent clip broadcast on a Canadian News Network station and in other interviews, the hosts were extremely deferential and never came close to asking a probing question. In this open letter, I will take a few lines to pose a few questions and make a few observations, some which beg for answers from your Holiness. I choose this medium because it is the only one available as I am unlikely to ever have the chance to speak with you personally.

After scanning one of your books, as well as several web-based articles by others, I personally think your return to Tibet is long overdue. You need to go home in order to better support your people on the front lines for, as you state further in the Washington Post article by Ms. Wax: “Even today, Tibetans in Tibet live in constant fear, and the Chinese authorities remain constantly suspicious of them…Tibetan people are regarded like criminals deserving to be put to death.” (Washington Post Link).

Losing the Tibetan culture would be a devastating loss to humankind, as the reflective nature of Buddhist spiritual teachings that have emanated from Tibet over the centuries, continues to play an important role in building a respectful and peaceful world. In that regard, as the world leader of the movement, you should play a much larger role.

While you have used strong words, as noted above, many think you are stuck with words and your celebrity status and that more is needed. Perhaps if you spent time standing shoulder to shoulder with your people, it would provide a wonderful example not only to your own people but also to the downtrodden around the world. I realize your jet setting lifestyle – meeting Heads of State and being interviewed by the world’s top reporters – must be very exciting, but really, does that not just feed the ego and not the soul? Does it really help the people of Tibet? I think not. As observed by the actions of others, the real work is done in the trenches.

Take a few minutes and reflect upon a few of the many men and women who choose to fight those battles on their home turf and at great personal expense. Nelson Mandela (photo, above right, in Robban Island Prison) spent twenty-five years rotting in that miserable South African hell-hole, before his quest for the freedom of his people became a reality. Mahatma Gandhi (photo of the statue, left) followed a similar path by remaining on the front lines while leading his people. While Mandela and Gandhi never shied away from the spotlight, they always did so from the front lines, side by side with their people.

In the United States, Martin Luther King, (photo below in US prison) paid the ultimate price as he worked to free his people from the oppression under which they lived. He was always on the front lines and many times was thrown in prison for his peaceful actions. Within the Christian tradition, Jesus was one well-known individual who gave his life for his people. Like you, Jesus is reported to have had a special advantage which I will briefly discuss near the end of this letter.

A more recent example of one person making a difference is that of Aung San Suu Kyi, (photo near the end of this letter) the Burmese activist who spent fifteen years under a house arrest ordered by the military dictatorship. Much of her work was done while confined to her home and by steadfastly clinging to her ideals as well as being faithful to her Buddhist underpinnings. Recently released, Aung San continues to play a major role in bringing about change in Burma  That young woman is an example of just one Buddhist whose footsteps you would do well to follow.  (November 2018: For whatever the reason, Aung San Suu Kyi was not able to continue advocating for her people: From peace icon to pariah. Do you suppose this is what happened to you, sir?)

Even among your own devoted monks, many have immolated themselves (photo below) in protest to the harsh treatment of your people and by China’s plan to pick the next Dalai Lama. I am not suggesting for a moment that you immolate yourself, but I think you should be standing shoulder-to-shoulder with your monks in leading your people to a better life. Should you be jailed, even for the remaining years of your life, you will have made a lasting testament to your beliefs that will live far beyond the earthly trappings that currently dress your office.

I know of no great military or world religious leader whoever won the battle for the hearts and minds of the people while living a life of affluence in the safety of the back lines, and, at the same time, becoming a prop in a photo op for world leaders and celebrities or as a set-piece in media interviews.

Around the world we have all heard of hundreds of thousands of ordinary people who have fought and continue to fight for that elusive right we so often take for granted, the right to freedom.  Although the world is steadily becoming a more peaceful, thousands still live and die in abysmal conditions in which they have little hope for a better life for themselves or their children. Your Holiness is certainly not yet in a category with those brave souls even though you have a tremendous advantage over mere mortals.

As you have proclaimed to the world, you are the 14th incarnation of the Dalai Lama, after having first appeared in 1391 AD. After your death in your current incarnation, only a short period will elapse before you will again incarnate as the 15th. The process will repeat, I assume, ad infinitum.  From my point of view, this advantage leaves the Chinese Government stuck between the proverbial ‘rock and a hard place’ and both they and you know it. As good as the Chinese Government is at controlling their people, as well as domestic and international outcomes, I don’t think they have yet achieved any form of control over incarnations.

As with that mythical person Jesus (painting left) Mandela, Gandhi, King, Kyi (photo above) and hundreds of others over the centuries, you can just step forward and face down the oppressors of your people in the peaceful fashion of a Buddhist. Returning to Tibet would bring the full and undivided attention of the world to the plight of your people?

You now have enough standing in the world that the Chinese Government will be hard-pressed to find a means to effectively silence you. For that matter, why not take the fight directly to Beijing and the heartland of the oppressors? Perhaps on Tiananmen Square, you could stand squarely on the spot where that young Chinese dissident, Wang Weilin, (photo below) in a singular display of peaceful courage that is seldom equaled, faced down those tanks and an entire system of repression. That courageous young man will long be remembered by his people and by people around the world as a symbol of peaceful resistance far beyond anything you have yet to achieve.

When you take that stand, the Chinese Government will posture and push, but you will have placed them squarely in the middle of a public relations nightmare far greater than anything they could possibly imagine. It could very well provide the impetus needed to lessen their chokehold on your people and, who knows, perhaps may inspire a whole new generation of peaceful dissent within China and around the world as that which followed Gandhi in India and the others that have been mentioned.

That the Chinese Government will try to silence you is a given and they may even throw you in jail. They may surreptitiously try to have you killed, but what good would killing you do? It would only bring even more worldwide attention and, if you should die, it would simply postpone your fight until you incarnate to again pick up the challenge.  How can the Chinese Government or anyone for that matter, successfully quell the spirit of someone who is able to return again, and again and again? What could silence your message, however, is to have the Tibetan culture extinguished and a puppet Dalai Lama installed by the Chinese Government.

Perhaps you think my questions disrespectful, but believe me, I am not. You are the respected leader one of the world’s great belief systems which has much to offer that is sorely missing from Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Sikh, and similar traditions, traditions that have developed an underlying propensity for intolerance and violence, particularly as relates to each others world view.

You Holiness, you need to help your people, your homeland and yourself by taking up the challenge. Go home now before it is to late before the children in the photo below become a footnote in history and your legacy is forever lost. For you too then incarnate again and again into a world where your people have been lost would truly be living in eternal hell.

Come Home Your Holiness and Lead us to Safety and Peace.

Yours very truly,

Harold McNeill

If you think this message has some merit, please forward it to the Office of His Holiness, the Dalai Lama. The following contact points are provided for your convenience:

Office Email: ohhdl@dalailama.com

Website Feedback:  webmaster@dalailama.com

Mailing address:
The Office of His Holiness the Dalai Lama
Thekchen Choeling
P.O. McLeod Ganj
Himachal Pradesh (H.P.) 176219

Link to HH Website  


The following information about His Holiness is copied from the Web:

The institution of the Dalai Lama has become, over the centuries, a central focus of Tibetan cultural identity; “a symbolic embodiment of the Tibetan national character.” Today, the Dalai Lama and the office of the Dalai Lama have become focal points in their struggle towards independence and, more urgently, cultural survival. The Dalai Lama is regarded as the principal incarnation of Chenrezig (referred to as Avalokiteshvara in India), the bodhisattva of compassion and patron deity of Tibet. In that role, the Dalai Lama has chosen to use peace and compassion in his treatment of his own people and his oppressors. In this sense, the Dalai Lama is the embodiment of an ideal of Tibetan values and a cornerstone of Tibetan identity and culture.

Verhaegen mentions the trans-polity influence that the Institution of the Dalai Lama has had historically in areas such as western China, Mongolia, Ladakh in addition to the other Himalayan Kingdoms:

The Dalai Lamas have also functioned as the principal spiritual guide to many Himalayan kingdoms bordering Tibet, as well as western China, Mongolia, and Ladakh. The literary works of the Dalai Lamas have, over the centuries, inspired more than fifty million people in these regions. Those writings, reflecting the fusion of Buddhist philosophy embodied in Tibetan Buddhism, have become one of the world’s great repositories of spiritual thought.  (Link at Dalai Lama)

Potala Palace in Lhasa home to His Holiness

Below, Celebrities Meet to Exchange World Views
in a well staged photo op


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  • Mike Fedorowich

    September 1, 2023 |

    I have gone through the above noted text and have found it quite informative.
    I am a former member with several law enforcement agencies from across Canada.
    I worked in the First Nations service under the authority of the RCMP with the over sight of the OPP. My law enforcement service was conducted under the authority of the Nishnawbe – Aski Police Service in North West Ontario the Louis Bull Police Sevice in Hobbema AB, the Kitasoo Xaixais Police Service in Northern in side passage on Swindle Island, the Lac Suel Police Service North West Ontario and the Vancouver Transit Authority Sky Train Police Service. I’m presently dealing with an RCMP member for falsifying a report against me for a road rage event. Court case is finished and the charge was dropped but I have an on going complaint with the member and have forwarded to the WATCH DOGS IN OTTAWA FOR the RCMP review and consideration. I believe the said officer is in violation of his oath of office and should be held accountable for falsifying his RTCC all the while dragging me through the court system here in Nanaimo. RCMP continue to stonewall the appeal but Ottawa and the crowns office are still looking into the matter. if your able and find the time or the interest in this very brief introduction, I would very much like to speak with you and would be grateful to hear any wisdom that may come across from your end. I served with First Nations Police Services for ten years in isolation and six years with Transit Police out of New West Minster. I do value and appreciate any time you could spare to chat for a bit on this particular subject matter. Respectfully with out anger but an open mind, Mike Fedorowich Nanaimo BC 250 667 0060

  • Harold McNeill

    February 28, 2022 |

    Hi Robert, I do remember some of those folks from my early years in Cold Lake (Hazel was my aunt and our family spent many fond times with Uncle Melvin, Aunt Hazel and Family. I knew Lawrence and Adrian. Having read a half dozen accounts it is clear their were many false narratives and, perhaps, a few truths along the way. I tried my best to provide an even account from what I read. Cheers, Harold. (email: Harold@mcneillifestories.com)

  • Robert Martineau

    February 25, 2022 |

    Its been a long time since any post here, but its worth a shot. My Grandfather was Hazel Wheelers brother Lawrence, and son to Maggie and Adrien. Maggie Martineau (nee Delaney) is my great grandmother. The books and articles to date are based on the white mans viewpoint and the real story as passed down by the Elders in my family is much more nefarious. Some of the white men were providing food for the Indians in exchange for sexual favors performed by the Squaws. Maggie was the product of one of those encounters. Although I am extremely proud of my family and family name, I am ashamed about this part of it.

  • Julue

    January 28, 2022 |

    Good morning Harold!
    Gosh darn it, you are such a good writer. I hope you have been writing a book about your life. It could be turned into a movie.
    Thanks for this edition to your blog.
    I pray that Canadians will keep their cool this weekend and next week in Ottawa. How do you see our PM handling it? He has to do something and quick!
    Xo Julie

  • Herb Craig

    December 14, 2021 |

    As always awesome job Harold. It seems whatever you do in life the end result is always the same professional, accurate, inclusive and entertaining. You have always been a class act and a great fellow policeman to work with. We had some awesome times together my friend. I will always hold you close as a true friend. Keep up the good work. Hope to see you this summer.
    Warm regards
    Herb Craig

  • Harold McNeill

    November 26, 2021 |

    Hi Dorthy, So glad you found those stories and, yes, they hold many fond memories. Thanks to social media and the blog, I’ve been able to get in touch with many friends from back in the day. Cheers, Harold

  • Harold McNeill

    November 26, 2021 |

    Well, well. Pleased to see your name pop up. I’m in regular contact via FB with many ‘kids’ from back in our HS days (Guy, Dawna, Shirley and others). Also, a lot of Cold Lake friends through FB. Cheers, Harold

  • Harold McNeill

    November 26, 2021 |

    Oh, that is many years back and glad you found the story. I don’t have any recall of others in my class other than the Murphy sisters on whose farm my Dad and Mom worked.

  • Harold McNeill

    November 26, 2021 |

    Pleased to hear from you Howie and trust all is going well. As with you, I have a couple of sad stories of times in my police career when I crossed paths with Ross Barrington Elworthy. Just haven’t had the time to write those stories.

  • Howie Siegel

    November 25, 2021 |

    My only fight at Pagliacci’s was a late Sunday night in 1980 (?) He ripped the towel machine off the bathroom wall which brought me running. He came after me, I grabbed a chair and cracked him on the head which split his skull and dropped him. I worried about the police finding him on the floor. I had just arrived from Lasqueti Island and wasn’t convinced the police were my friends. I dragged him out to Broad and Fort and left him on the sidewalk, called the cops. They picked him up and he never saw freedom again (as far as I know). I found out it was Ross Elworthy.